July 2005

Things I’ve noticed in MS

  • There are more Hooters than Starbucks on the Gulf Coast of MS
  • People are pretty fat here. And they look at me funny when I’m in my sweaty clothes after I’ve been working out. “You ain’t from around here, is ya?”
  • Dessert is the most important mail of the day. See above.
  • Most cars here have Support Our Troops ribbon things on ‘em. Like 95%. Including our rental car
  • There are A LOT of churches and Dollar Stores and WalMarts. Yup.
  • A good haircut must be hard to find here OR that is not a vanity point for the people here. Bad hair abounds. And it doesn’t seem like product has made it this far south yet.
  • People here don’t seem to notice how awful the weather is.

I’m back at B&N enjoying the peacefulness of the little cafe. Answering email. Idly surfing the web. Dreaming of home.

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Out of my comfort zone…

Finally got online – turns out the hotel didn’t have internet access after all. So, I’m sitting in the cafe (run by Starbucks) at the Barnes & Noble enjoying this lovely wireless network: checking email, IMing with people back in the real world and counting the hours until I get on my flight home (a bit less than 29).

I really miss San Francisco. It’s so hot and so humid here (with thunderstorms in the afternoon) and people stare at me. Just stare. I tried to say ‘hi’ to one guy and he just stared. Now I’m trying to avoid people’s gazes all together. I want to come back to where, as my friend says, “the temperatures are all moderate and the people all a little off center in a good way.”

Big Daddy is off for some alone time with his mom – I know he’ll be fine, but I hated leaving him. She’s definitely a handful. It’s like being around someone who has no ability to monitor her own conversational patterns or the patterns of others. Basically spending time with her is like enduring a never ending stream of non-sequitars. She’s veered into uncomfortable territory a couple times but we’ve done well at staying away from the danger zones.

Tonight is the big party with the cousins, aunts and uncles and then I get to come back to B&N to camp for a couple more hours tomorrow while they go off to church and sunday school. Then off to the airport in the afternoon.

I’m looking forward to returning to my normal life on Monday. Work will be so welcome to me and then I’m hoping to spend some time around some gays. Not so many gays here. I miss ‘em with their fancy gym-going ways and hair product. They’ve got some frightening hair styles down here. hoowee.

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Gulf Coast – here we come!

I’m off to the airport in about a half hour to head to New Orleans where Big Daddy will be waiting for me at the curb to drive the two hours to Long Beach, MS. I wish I could say I was looking forward to the trip, but with the heat, humidity and redneck-ism I’m sure I’ll be encountering I can’t say I’m as excited to go as I was for NYC or Puerto Vallarta.

Sounds like he’s already gotten me out of having to go to Sunday school with his mom and him, but we’re on for the Gulf Coast knockoff of Cirque du Soleil. Dancing aligators? Mimes eating po’ boys?

Last night dinner for a pal’s birthday – the restaurant was kinda noisy so I mostly talked to the 3 people I was sitting closest to, but luckily they were three that I liked alot… yummy Thai food and a good bay area farewell meal before I head to the land of overcooked vegetables and iceburg lettuce. one of my dinner companions said when she lived in Texas they had fried iceburg lettuce. i have a feeling the cuisine where I’m headed will include much fried food which while often yummy is not so inline with my current healthier ways.

I think we’re staying at this casino so at least I’ll have some familiar vegas-style amenities. And heck! The bars are open until 1 am!!! wow!

ok – gotta turn off the computer and pack it. i’ll try and blog from there… stay tuned.

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The stellar weekend – a report

It was one of those incredible weekends – great weather coupled with no shortage of friends, things to do and the Giants getting their asses kicked. Ok, so the Giants losing wasn’t the best part, but the weather was so great I was wearing a short sleeve shirt at a baseball game in San Francisco. And when does that ever happen?

A delicious dinner with friends I don’t see enough, banana splits with an awesome 6-year-old, Dim Sum in the Avenues, planting flowers in the boxes on my deck, hanging out with friends and not a lick of work… I could get used to this.

And next weekend? Long Beach, Mississippi, baby. (make sure to check out the RealFeel temps. hoowee.)

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M-I-S-S-I-S-S-P-P-I

Next week at this time I’ll be on the Gulf Coast of Mississippi with Big Daddy. A few months ago when we were in NY he mentioned that he was going to visit his mom and that it wasn’t always the easiest thing for him to do – she’s kinda complex. I care about this guy alot so I volunteered to go with him so that he’d have some support and a pal to laugh with.

The time is nigh. And she’s getting a bit scary in my mind. I’m sure it’ll be fine, but he got an email from her yesterday that makes Jewish guilt look like a walk in the park. In past emails, she’s said things like, “Btw, Caryl ought to let her hair grow — she is a cute girl. Maybe a cute dress or top that is more feminine? She would be so cute with a little blush, lipstick and eye makeup” and “Now I do think the “art” photos from Caryl’s pix are a little weird. I guess she is into vaginas and finds them interesting?” But the email yesterday basically asked why he’s coming to visit if he hates her… yipes.

So off we go – to show her that he doesn’t hate her and that I’m probably not going to start wearing makeup at her urging. And then when I need to go do some family thing that I’m dreading, I’ll have one of my best friends at my side to laugh and commisserate with.

Love you, Big Daddy.

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Hiking Half Dome

updated – here’s my photos.

I’m back from my amazing trip to Half Dome. I made it to the point where the cables begin and decided that the last 900 foot granite slab at about a 45° angle (400 vertical feet up) was too much for me given my almost-life long fear of heights. The pictures will be up in a couple days – need to get the disposable cameras to 1-hour photo tomorrow.

So, for a 40-year old who has basically been a couch/computer potato for roughly three years up until May of this year, I made about a 4800 ft. ascent in around 7 hours and the return trip down in a little less than 6 hours on a day where the temperature hovered around 95°. A great description of the route I took can be found on this site.

The smartest thing we did (besides bringing lots and lots of water) was leaving at 5:15 am. There were few other hikers until much later in the day and not having a lot of people trying to get past me made me much more comfortable setting my own pace. Since I was slower than my hiking companions they outpaced me in the first 15 minutes – so I spent the first five hours or so hiking alone. This started with the hike to Vernal Falls which is a series of wet granite steps that took me up about a 1000 ft in a little over a mile. Vernal Falls was breathtaking, the trail up to it is called the Mist Trail because of the incredible amount of mist coming off the falls (i know, duh…). Scaling those stairs alone in that mist at around 6 am was like nothing I’ve ever done before. Maybe it was the solitude or just my lack of coffee (breakfast was an energy drink and a Red Bull), but I felt like I was in a dream. A dream with lots of really steep wet granite steps.

It was crazy different on the return trip at 4 pm where there were literally hundreds of people who were doing that as their day hike in Yosemite.

From Vernal I headed up to Nevada falls which was basically a trail of more granite steps, except this time of varying dimensions, widths and heights. I took lots of breaks and established my first trail friendship with two guys who were on a similar break schedule. I continued to see them right up until we got to the base of the rock staircase that leads to the cables – since I was alone it was nice to have these encouraging funny guys to banter with instead of focusing on the crazy way my heart was beating from the hiking. On the way back down while trying to navigate these crazy, precarious steps, AmyS (one of my hiking companions on this trip) and I just kept marvelling that we’d come up them. For me, I think I was so focused on the fact that I was going up, that I didn’t notice how just difficult it was to find a good path.

Around 7 am I had one of those Gu energy gel things. OK. Those things are fucking brilliant. Best energy spurts ever. When I do this hike the next time – yes, there will be a next time and I’ll do the cables next time – I’ll take more of these and less trail mix with chocolate chips. In case you didn’t know, chocolate melts when it’s 95°. Messy.

I was maybe a little less than 2 miles from the summit when I heard someone behind me calling my name. I turned around and there were Julia and AmyS – two of the three women I’d come up with. I hadn’t seen them in around 4.5 hours and had been thinking they’d already gotten to the top. Unfortunately for them, they’d taken a wrong turn and taken an alternate and longer route. It ended up being great for me because it meant I got to do the hike down with someone. I walked with them for a bit, but they rapidly outpaced me again and got to the base of the summit before me – and were waiting to start the granite stairs when I got there.

The granite stairs to the cables were killer tough. I used my hands to grab on a lot and tried not to look down. This was when the height/fear thing was starting to kick in and I just wanted to keep going. There were parts that felt much more like climbing than hiking. But again, I’m not in the best shape, so this bit seemed particularly strenous to me.

I sat down at the base of the cables and stared up at them for quite a while. AmyS and Julia were already on their way up so if I was going to do it, I’d be alone. I looked at the incredible view around me. I thought about what I’d actually been able to accomplish hiking up with less than 3 months of regular exercise (basically seeing a personal trainer twice a week for about 10 weeks, hiking 4-5 weekends leading up to this weekend, and using my new rowing machine 3-4 times a week for the last 3 weeks or so – but before that little more than a walk to the corner store for beer for THREE YEARS) and I felt incredibly satisfied with my day. I decided the cables and the summit could wait until I work a little more on the height fear thing.

So… what’s my plan for working on the fear of heights thing? Wouldn’t you like to know? Who wants to come with me?

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off to Half Dome

Tomorrow I leave for Yosemite and on Saturday morning at 5 am, me and a couple friends will start our ascent of Half Dome. We’re hiking not climbing, and with any luck and a little perseverance we should get to the peak midday. Supposedly my phone will work on the summit and if it does I’ll post a picture to the blog midday.

The hike is 17 miles round trip and the ascent is about 4,800 ft. I’m going to take my time and rest when I need to, but I plan on getting to the top.

Sadly my digital camera broke this week so is in the shop. But I’m planning on picking up a disposable tomorrow and one of my co-hikers is a photographer bringing two cameras so there should be plenty of pictures post-hike.

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New Corpse Bride trailer

Go watch this right now.

In the words of the Animation Director at my work: “Top-notch animation”. No small words from Bob…

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4 day weekends

For some reason, EA decided to give us a 4-day weekend. And what this has helped me realize is that we should all be doing 3 day work weeks and then have 4 day weekends. 4 days is enough to get your chores done, try a new tea shop, go on a 4.5 hour hike in Marin, play a game for 7 hours straight and still have a whole day left.

Alas, it is most likely the calm before the storm.

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